/Shyness/ Shyness is always inside us as a beautiful feeling (a cocktail of true modest, sensitive, afraid to disturb or hurt), then we know how not to express it. Children are happier within shyness than adults because they are less shy with their shyness, they don't have to suffer or regret about that much. "Shyness" here is not about gender, it's just about a feeling we have to reduce as growing up. By reducing his shyness, a child controls his feeling better, he becomes stronger, more decisive and that's why he's called a man. But we (with much mental problems) miss our shyness :")